AEE 2178: Basketball in English Part 3: Not Into Sports? How to Keep the Conversation Going

AEE 2178: Basketball in English Part 3: Not Into Sports? How to Keep the Conversation Going

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Taylor_0B07
Taylor_0B07
2024.8.31
When engaging in conversation with someone who is not interested in sports, it's important to be respectful of their interests and to find common ground. Here are some phrases and strategies you can use to keep the conversation flowing in English:

1. **Acknowledge their disinterest:**
- "I understand sports aren't really your thing, and that's totally okay."
- "It's great that you have other passions; I'd love to hear more about what you enjoy."

2. **Shift the focus to their interests:**
- "What do you like to do in your free time?"
- "If you could talk about any topic, what would it be?"

3. **Use open-ended questions to encourage conversation:**
- "What's something you've been passionate about lately?"
- "Have you come across any interesting books, movies, or shows recently?"

4. **Express curiosity about their hobbies:**
- "I'm always interested in learning about new hobbies. What's one of yours?"
- "Tell me about your favorite way to unwind after a long day."

5. **Mention a related topic that might interest them:**
- "Even though you're not into sports, have you heard about the technology they're using in stadiums these days?"
- "There's a lot of talk about the business side of sports. Have you ever thought about how it influences the economy

6. **Suggest a compromise or alternative:**
- "If you're not keen on sports, maybe we could find a documentary or podcast that covers a related topic you might find interesting."
- "How about we find a way to combine your interests with a sports-related activity? Like a charity run for a cause you care about."

7. **Be open to learning from them:**
- "I'm curious, what is it about sports that doesn't appeal to you?"
- "I'd love to get your perspective on why certain topics resonate with you more than sports."
Taylor_0B07:Remember, the goal is to create a comfortable and engaging conversation, so be flexible and attentive to the other person's cues. By showing genuine interest in their views and experiences, you can build a connection that goes beyond shared interests in sports.
Taylor_0B07:Here are some alternative phrases and conversational strategies to use when someone expresses a lack of interest in sports: 1. **Express understanding and empathy:** - "I get it, sports aren't for everyone. What kind of activities do you find exciting?" - "It's totally fine if sports aren't your cup of tea. What are you passionate about?" 2. **Shift the conversation to a broader context:** - "Sports can be a big part of some people's lives, but there's so much more to explore. What's something you've been exploring lately?" - "Even though sports dominate a lot of conversations, there are endless topics to discuss. What's on your mind?" 3. **Ask about their lifestyle or wellness habits:** - "If sports aren't your thing, what do you do to stay active and healthy?" - "I'm curious, what's your approach to fitness and wellness if you're not into traditional sports?" 4. **Mention a cultural or social aspect of sports that might intrigue them:** - "Have you noticed how sports often reflect cultural trends and societal issues? It's quite fascinating." - "There's a lot of psychology behind why people are drawn to sports. Have you ever thought about that?"
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翠西Tracey
翠西Tracey
2024.4.09
it’s not my point, but it’s connection, it’s his or her time, interesting in their opinion.