自我牺牲换不来尊重?吉米·罗恩揭秘个人成长与人际关系的真谛

自我牺牲换不来尊重?吉米·罗恩揭秘个人成长与人际关系的真谛

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I used to use the phrase "I'll take care of you, you take care of me."

我过去常常用这句话:“我会照顾你,你照顾我。”

I find out how short-ended that was.

我发现这是多么短暂。

I changed it ,here it is, "I'll take care of me for you, if you will take care of you for me."

我改变了它,这里是:“我会为你照顾我自己,如果你会为你自己照顾你自己。”

The best contribution I can make to you if you're my friend is my personal development.

如果我是你的朋友,我能为你做出的最好的贡献就是我的个人发展。

What if I become ten times wiser, ten times stronger, ten times better, ten times more unique?

如果我变得更聪明十倍、更强大十倍、更好十倍、更独特十倍会怎样?

Think of what that will do for our friendship.

想想这会给我们友谊带来什么。

Self-sacrifice usually earns contempt.

自我牺牲通常会换来轻视。

Self-development, self-investment earns respect.

自我发展、自我投资赢得尊重。