【第7期】恋爱中的灵魂拷问(Where are we?)耕伟学长的小语宙

【第7期】恋爱中的灵魂拷问(Where are we?)

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含义:我们处在恋爱当中的什么阶段?

【拓展表达:恋爱的几个阶段】

  • 约会:date(区分【appointment】)
  • 约会:see/seeing(I am seeing a guy today,比较casual)
  • 火花:chemistry(I can feel some chemistry between us)
  • 没确定关系:we are just seeing (each other).
  • 排他的:exclusive (书面语:mutually exclusive; 口语:exclusive relationship/dating:不会同时见其他人的约会 )
  • 已经确定下来的关系:We are in a (serious) relationship. (可能有的动作 :exchange the keys; writing holiday cards together)
  • 更正式的阶段:saying "love"

【文中的一大段英文】

  • I think we should have this conversation.
  • Where are we?
  • Where is this relationship going?
  • I hope we are moving forward.
  • Otherwise, we are just moving backward, or we are just staying still. It's not good.
  • We are having a good time. We are having fun.
  • Fun is really important. But fun is not enough. Perhaps fun is enough for me like ten years ago. 
  • But now nobody is getting any younger.
  • We should start thinking about some serious stuff.

【表白的英语】

  • I like you (a lot/very much).
  • I love spending time with you. I love hanging out with you.
  • I love you.
  • 告白(こくはく kokuhaku):约等于confession

【我的人生体验】

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Joslyn-JYN
Joslyn-JYN
2025.4.09
大段英文好像罗斯和蒙娜讨论“where are we”结果崩了的那段啊🫢文化背景对人的影响真的很大,想到拥有一个传统中国脑袋的我刚接触英美剧的时候每一部都觉得很炸裂😂第一次看老友记的时候,对罗斯“We were on a break”真的完全无法理解……并且直到今天对西方的dating文化都只是保持尊重,也能看到优点,但还是更欣赏传统感情观(ps:我还以为日式表白方式应该是“今夜月色真美”呢)
林林是我
林林是我
2025.4.09
这声音听了可入眠!👍