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0“Who am I?” “Why am I here?” — These questions may seem abstract, but they often appear early in our lives, quietly.
In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Ojaba for an honest, open conversation—not to define the meaning of life, but to reflect on our own journeys of uncertainty, spiritual shifts, emotional awareness, and loving without expectation.
We speak about surrendering to what is, and the quiet power of allowing life to unfold without forcing it to make sense.
May this episode offer you a soft echo, and a moment of truth.
第二通来电｜生命的意义：从寻找答案到允许一切发生
“我是谁？”、“我为什么活着？”——这些看似遥远的问题，其实从很小的时候就悄悄浮现在我们心里。
在这一集里，我和好友Ojaba展开一场轻松而真实的对话。我们没有急着找答案，而是分享了各自在人生不同阶段的迷茫、灵性转变、情绪觉察和爱的练习。
我们谈到：生命的意义也许并不是去找一个确定的目的，而是学会感受、允许一切发生，并温柔地靠近真实的自己。
希望这期的对话，能陪你走一小段路。
🎧 Episode Preview ｜分段内容提要
00:00 – 03:00
🌿 开场 & 问题的邀请
灵空介绍本集主题，提出「我们为什么活着？」这个常被忽略却深刻的问题。
🌿 Opening & Questioning
Lingkong introduces the theme of the episode: a quiet return to the timeless question — “Why are we here?”
03:00 – 08:00
🌱 青春期的第一次迷茫
Ojaba 分享17岁开始思考人生意义的契机和感受。
🌱 First Confusion in Adolescence
Ojaba shares how she first began questioning the meaning of life at age 17.
08:00 – 14:00
🕊 信仰与形式：灵性觉醒的起点
从天主教传统走向对真实经验的渴望，开启灵性探索之路。
🕊 From Religion to Inner Experience
A shift from structured faith to seeking lived spiritual truth.
14:00 – 20:00
🌊 麻木感与压抑的情绪
聊到成长过程中的情绪压抑，以及“感觉不到”的阶段。
🌊 Numbness & Emotional Silence
Exploring periods of emotional suppression and disconnection.
20:00 – 28:00
🌼 不再寻找答案，而是去经验生命
Ojaba 讲述自己从“寻找意义”到“允许发生”的转变。
🌼 From Seeking to Allowing
Ojaba shares her journey from chasing meaning to simply allowing life to unfold.
28:00 – 35:00
🍃 什么是真正的自由？
讨论“非抗拒”的自由，以及放下控制感后的松弛。
🍃 What Is Real Freedom?
Letting go of control and learning to live in non-resistance.
35:00 – 42:00
🌀 我不是某个标签
从社会身份、人类图、星座中脱离，自我认同的松动。
🌀 I Am Not a Label
A gentle detachment from societal roles and personality systems.
42:00 – 50:00
💗 爱是无条件的给予
Kieren 分享一段真实小事：当我们不再期待回报时，爱才真正自由。
💗 Love Means Giving Without Expectation
Kieren reflects on how love becomes expansive when it’s unconditional.
50:00 – 60:00
🌙 接纳与温柔的力量
从控制、投射到放下，爱自己是一切的起点。
🌙 The Power of Gentle Acceptance
Letting go of expectations, meeting oneself with kindness.
60:00 – End
✨ 灵性的幽默感 & 更松的状态
聊到“正能量”与“高频率”的误解，以及现在更轻松的灵性状态。
✨ Humour & Soft Spirituality
How we’ve softened from earlier ideas of “high vibration” into something truer and lighter.
Special Thanks to Ojaba Cesario
Post Production: Darian
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