作为TT客厅 2025 年第一季的最后一期,我已经从纽约搬回了 SF,开始了一个新的篇章,——这也是我第二次从东海岸搬到西海岸,所以这期对我来说格外特别,也作为这一年的一个结尾。录这期视频的时候,我们迎来了一位刚从 SF 搬到 NY 的朋友,同时也准备送别一位即将告别纽约、搬回湾区的朋友。在纽约建立社群、组织活动的过程中,我经常会认识一些在加州和纽约都生活过的朋友。虽然大家的轨迹看起来略有重合,但最终都成长成了非常不一样的人。这次的话题,围绕着我们如何在一次次搬来搬去的过程中找到、定义自己,以及这些流动的轨迹给个人和身边关系带来的影响展开。在异国他乡不断改变地理坐标的同时,我们也在重构自己的心理的锚点。
As the final episode of T’s Living Room in 2025, I’ve recently moved back to SF from New York. This is my second time relocating from the East Coast to the West Coast, which makes this episode especially meaningful to me—almost like a natural way to close out the year.
When we recorded this episode, we were welcoming a guest who had just moved from SF to New York, while saying goodbye to another guest who was leaving New York and heading back to the Bay Area. Through building community and organizing events in New York, I’ve met many people who have lived in both California and New York. Even though our paths may look similar on the surface, we’ve all grown into very different people. In this conversation, we talk about how we find and define ourselves through repeated moves, and how these trajectories shape both who we become and the relationships around us. As we continue to change our physical coordinates in a foreign place, we’re also rebuilding our mental anchors.
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嘉宾Guests:
- Tina(主播):SF-NYC-SF
- 锤姐:SF/Bay Area-Shanghai -NYC-Bay Area
- Annie: SF - NYC
- Angela:SF/Bay Area-NYC
- Sean:SF/Bay Area-NYC
- Jerry:Toronto-Bay Area- NYC
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具体内容Content Breakdown:
1:57 嘉宾介绍 Guest Introduction
6:02 搬家的自主性 Agency in Moving
8:51 当选择不尽人意的时候我们怎么办 What Do We Do When Our Choices Don’t Turn Out as Expected
11:00 临时生活和过客心态 Temporary Living & the “Passenger” Mindset
13:31 跟随生活地点改变的心态和性格 How Place Shapes Our Mindset and Personality
15:00 在不同地方的生活节奏中找自己 Finding Ourselves Through Different Rhythms of Life
19:00 生活的盼头 What Keeps Us Going
21:35 重构生活的优先级 Rebuilding Priorities
23:22 搬家中影响的人际关系 How Moving Reshapes Our Relationships
26:58 快问快答 Rapid-Fire Q&A
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- 小红书 (RedNote):@TT客厅
- Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@TsLivingRoom
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- Spotify:open.spotify.com
- Apple Podcast:podcasts.apple.com客厅/id1794018107
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✨TT客厅是一档中英双语的视频播客,以自我探索与成长为切入点,展开与不同背景朋友的真实对话。话题涵盖个人经历、职业路径与文化观察等广泛议题,在轻松真诚的交流中连接彼此,搭建一个分享和产生共鸣的空间。欢迎大家一键三连最新的片段。✨T’s Living Room is a bilingual video podcast in Chinese and English, using self-exploration and personal growth as a starting point for authentic conversations with people from diverse backgrounds. Covering a wide range of topics—from personal journeys and career paths to cultural reflections—the podcast creates a relaxed and sincere space for sharing, connection, and mutual resonance.

