本期节目是复旦大学新加坡校友会大家沙龙之婚姻哲学探讨的现场录音，音频发布已征得发言校友们的同意。
节目围绕拒婚跳楼的女教师这一社会事件展开头脑风暴，从此次悲剧中讨论何为婚姻的本质、婚姻的未来形态、如何寻找伴侣等等，重新审视婚姻对现代个体的意义。
聊天｜复旦大学新加坡校友会大家沙龙之婚姻哲学探讨
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07:33 我觉得一开头嘉宾们就没法和这个不幸的女教师共情。她的父母在她跳楼后的反应是急忙把她和自己撇清关系，排除出自己家庭，这样的父母是正常的父母，可以沟通？这个女教师恐怕唯一的可行选择是逃离她的环境，但是出于能力或者环境客观上的原因（不排除殴打，拘禁）没有办法逃离。
Sophia_DcH2:认同，一开头没听到共情
Teresa叶彬清:她们都是做父母的人了，她们会更多去思考如何不让孩子承受这种压力。如果听完整期内容，会发现不同年龄的人思考问题的层次不同，对我们来说在乎共情，对年长的人来说更重要的是如何解决问题，像她们说的经济独立之外更要精神独立。
G K Chesterton 认为，爱情的本性就是“自我束缚”（to bind itself）。婚姻不是现代人眼中的“自由”，而是恋人自愿放弃自由的最高形式——一种英雄式的誓言。
经典引用（来自《The Defendant》）：
“It is the nature of love to bind itself, and the institution of marriage merely paid the average man the compliment of taking him at his word. Modern sages offer to the lover, with an ill-flavoured grin, the largest liberties and the fullest irresponsibility; but they do not respect him as the old Church respected him; they do not write his oath upon the heavens, as the record of his highest moment.”
他嘲讽现代人追求“无责任的自由”，却忽略了真正的自由在于承诺。
经典引用（来自《The Defendant》）：
“It is the nature of love to bind itself, and the institution of marriage merely paid the average man the compliment of taking him at his word. Modern sages offer to the lover, with an ill-flavoured grin, the largest liberties and the fullest irresponsibility; but they do not respect him as the old Church respected him; they do not write his oath upon the heavens, as the record of his highest moment.”
他嘲讽现代人追求“无责任的自由”，却忽略了真正的自由在于承诺。
