018 | 人在北美,我找到了一碗汤距离的家人 I found my chosen family, just a bowl of soup away大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir

018 | 人在北美,我找到了一碗汤距离的家人 I found my chosen family, just a bowl of soup away

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【聊了什么The What】

之前聊过了远距离友谊,这期小苕拉来了两位邻居朋友,把话题拉回到TA们一碗汤距离的全酷儿友邻日常!小时候的邻居是父母人际关系的延伸,上学时期的室友是我们人生的过渡。而成年之后,我们终于开始主动选择谁要站在自己的生活的边界线。从国内到北美,从宿舍到公寓,我们讨论喂饭浇花、互相投喂、一起做饭的默契,也聊到一起打牌、看电影、爬山的娱乐时刻。温馨的生活在合作和协商中悄然搭建,希望你在收听的时候也能感受到这种可爱的氛围!

We previously talked about long-distance friendships. In this episode, Shao invited two neighbors to bring the conversation back to their everyday lives as all-queer neighbors living just a bowl of soup away. As children, neighbors were extensions of our parents’ social networks; during school, roommates felt like transitions in our lives; and in adulthood, we finally begin to choose who stands at the boundaries of our own lives. From China to North America, from dorms to apartments, through our every-day exchanges of care, a warm life is quietly built through cooperation and negotiation. We hope to share this warm atmosphere as you listen!

【时间轴 The When】

  • 3:31 小时候是如何理解邻居关系

  • 9:26 我们的动物邻居故事

  • 18:30 上学时期的室友关系

  • 29:10 南方人在北美学包饺子

  • 35:00 如何分配厨房里的活儿

  • 40:42 离家之后重获自由地掼蛋

  • 45:33 分享精选抽象视频

  • 50:10 爬山局的小插曲

  • 55:27 邻居是我们好好生活的底气

  • 3:31 How we understood the concept of neighbors as kids

  • 9:26 Animals as neighbors

  • 18:30 Roommates back in school

  • 29:10 Southerners learned to make dumplings in North America

  • 35:00 How we divided chores in the kitchen

  • 40:42 Reclaiming card games away from home

  • 45:33 Sharing TikToks and memes

  • 50:10 Small conflict during hiking trip

  • 55:27 Neighbors, the foundation of a good life

【我们是谁】

大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆;酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题,用俏皮犀利的洞察,对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅,邀请你与我们相聚 ;D

Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D

本期我们的主播和嘉宾:

  • 小苕 (it/its):一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆
  • 酸酸(she/her):一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖
  • 小伯:一只喜欢赖在邻居家不走的伯恩山
  • 仙贝:一枚海苔味儿的仙贝

Our hosts and guests:

  • Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed.
  • Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste
  • Bo: A Bernese Mountain Dog who doesn’t want to leave the neighbor’s place
  • Xianbei: A nori-flavored senbei

本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作,Yanny 进行音频编辑。Ruby 设计封面,跑跑制作音乐。大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。

This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun.Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media.

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