纪念一个可能从来就不重要的人和故事
EP42｜grieving a relationship that's never started
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BenXu
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From a boy's perspective, pure friendship doesn't exist. Most friendship between boys and girls either turns into a relationship or keep as it is forever. He made that change by suggesting intimacy. Your rejection turned him away…You two had those intense experiences together in a few days in a strange place under the condition that you didn't know each other before. That progress sounds quick to me. But I'm open-minded. I'm not sure what's on him that you liked. But I'm sure from your description that you were giving him wrong message about your accessibility. He's a open, ditect or even flippant guy to me in that he suggested having sex with you so quick. On receiving your feedback, he suggested that. He's definitely not taking you serious as a normal friend or further-a girlfriend. If you are not seeking a random relationship, then there's nothing to grieve about on this. Just enjoy what you had with him, if those are your happy memories. You'll meet more people. I don't think he will be the right one or a good friend for you after all this.
汐野纳:Thanks for this. This is also what most of my friends said to me. I also think I exaggerated this to a level it shouldn’t belong to. I should move on
