Choose Your Energy, Not Just Your WordsJuju英语角

Choose Your Energy, Not Just Your Words

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有时候,让人消耗的,不是别人说了什么,
而是你待在了一个不对的环境里。

这一期,我想分享一个很小的经历,
但它让我重新意识到一件事:
我们真正需要学会的,是选择自己所处的能量场。

Sometimes, it’s not about what people say—
it’s about how they make you feel.

In this episode, I share a small experience
that reminded me how important it is
to protect your energy and choose your environment wisely.

展开Show Notes
割肉大王
割肉大王
2026.3.29
(仅个人观点)大部分人在网上是无法做到来言去语互动交流的,比如您说到融入新的环境有多么努力时,很多人无法做到感同身受,更别说用第二语言了。多数情况下都在兀自表达,除非有他们认为符合自己情绪价值的内容出现。从过去的OICQ,UC,论坛,到各种视频网站,微信群,再到现在的抖音,快手等等,真心的交流本来就是一种奢望。重视热闹的表象只能浪费精力。
我个人更喜欢真实、形象、贴切的互动,比如当某些人分享情绪细微变化或者思想理念时,双方能跟随对方的描述予以理性回应。就像您的每一期播客一样。甚至有很多话,也能留在脑海中作为值得品味的东西。
JujuEnglish
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真诚又克制的交流是很难得,也是我最珍惜的。
Juju, I feel the same way sometimes. Especially in office work, some people are very aggressive and seem to show some power over others. It may annoy me when I was freshman, but now I just let it go. Try not to be affected by negative emotions and be kind to good people who are deserved. Besides, I also found that in every stage in our life, the number of true friends are really rare. So I appreciate them. After I married, some old friends had less connections even no connection with me. I was depressed at first. Now I know the emotions should not be so affected by this connection. It needs to be kept by two sides. What you need is the most important! Thank you JuJu
JujuEnglish
:
That is such wonderful wisdom! I do believe quality relationships do exist, but they take maturity and boundaries as well as true love and passion. And the most important relationship is always the one with ourselves 💕
抱抱我Juju
It takes so much self-awareness to recognize when a space isn’t serving your energy—and choosing to step away is such an act of self-care. I’m sorry you had that experience, but I’m so glad you’re listening to your own needs. 💛
JujuEnglish
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哇我的西西太懂我啦!这段话超级棒呢!It’s okay! These experiences make a great story to tell, don’t they? Plus, I feel even stronger now and more sure of myself and what I want in life! Thank you so much for your sweet words! Hugs hugs 🥰