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14What are the "growing-up" moments in our lives?
我们会不会总觉得自己好像还没有长大，但是又有一些时刻猛然发现自己开窍了？或者回头时忽然觉得自己某个阶段做事情的方式好傻？
这个问题已经萦绕在我头脑里好久，现在想讲这些瞬间分享给你，无论是对生活开始有掌控欲望的时候，还是意识到自己已经在行为中试图为女性主义发声的那一次对话，有些“开悟时刻”是轻盈的、另一些是伴随着焦虑和不安而来的。但是我们的这些瞬间、都值得被纪念。
📍时间线：
01:48 从饮酒年龄到什么是“开智”
03:44 互联网开智瞬间
04:22 第一重“开智”时刻，来的好晚啊
09:00 前额叶发展和“开智”的联系，一切都可能只是身体发育
12:02 第二重“开智”：逐渐发现和接受自己，开始显露出父母的很多特征
15:20 女性主义可能是需要被“开智”的，但这并不代表我们没有早已开始践行
21:00 第三重“开智”：开始反思这种不断表达、是否也是一种全能自信？
26:42 思考伴随着焦虑，醒悟也只是一个个的阶段
祝你心情愉快～万事顺利！
Do you ever feel like you’re still not quite “grown up,”
but then suddenly have these moments where something just clicks?
Or when you look back and realize the way you used to think or act in a certain phase was… kind of naive?
This question has been on my mind for a long time.
And now I want to share some of those moments with you:
Whether it’s the first time you start wanting a sense of control over your life,
or that conversation where you suddenly realize you’ve already been speaking up for feminism through your actions.
Some of these “moments of awakening” feel light and effortless,
while others come with anxiety and uncertainty.
But all of them, every single one, are worth remembering.
📍Timeline:
01:48 From legal drinking age to what “awakening” really means
03:44 Moments of awakening shaped by the internet
04:22 The first awakening… why did it come so late?
09:00 The link between brain development (prefrontal cortex) and “awakening” — could it just be biology?
12:02 Second awakening: gradually recognizing and accepting yourself, and noticing how much you resemble your parents
15:20 Maybe feminism is something we “awaken” into — but that doesn’t mean we weren’t already practicing it
21:00 Third awakening: questioning whether constant self-expression is also a kind of overconfidence
26:42 Reflection comes with anxiety, and awakening is never just one moment — but a series of stages
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