Dr. Becky Kennedy is the founder and CEO of Good Inside, a parenting movement that overturns a lot of conventional, modern parenting practices to empower parents to become sturdy, confident leaders and raise sturdy, confident kids. She is the author of the bestselling book Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, a chart-topping podcast, a TED talk with more than 5 million views on the power of repair.
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This episode was originally published in December 2024. Show notes and links: tim.blog
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00:00 Start.
00:01:55 The power of repair.
00:04:50 "It's never your fault when I yell at you."
00:08:55 What does it mean to be a "good" parent?
00:10:32 Activating curiosity over judgment.
00:13:33 Alternatives to saying "Good job" as a confidence builder.
00:20:50 Making kids happy vs. building capability.
00:24:18 A pilot metaphor for sturdy leadership.
00:29:30 Role confusion.
00:32:04 Defining boundaries.
00:35:07 How parenting becomes a two-way mirror for growth.
00:40:09 The MGI (Most Generous Interpretation) approach.
00:42:52 Biggest challenges in parenting.
00:46:52 Recommended reading for someone with kids in their life.
00:52:11 Advisable prerequisites for singles who aim to build a family.
00:56:18 Setting boundaries with grandparents and dealing with different parenting styles.
01:01:42 Handling frustration when a child is pushing your buttons.
01:09:58 Lessons learned from working with eating disorders.
01:13:26 Managing troublemaker behavior.
01:17:38 Bad influence intervention.
01:22:52 Cultivating resilience in "deeply feeling" kids (DFKs).
01:28:58 The trials and errors that birthed Good Inside.
01:32:53 "Our words are not our wishes. Our words are our fears."
01:40:07 Billboard messages and mantras.
01:48:00 Fan-favorite scripts on saying no, boundaries, and repair.
01:51:15 The tennis court metaphor for boundaries.
01:55:45 Resources and parting thoughts.
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