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02:01 什么是friendship？
The definition of Friendship (Carrier, 1999): is not just a relationship between people, it is a kind of relationship, one based on spontaneous and unconstrained sentiment or affection.
A prerequisite of friendship, the autonomous self, is likely to exist only among people who can pursue political and economic survival and success through relatively impersonal mechanisms, of which the capitalist market and the state are eminent examples.
The idea of the autonomous self is not just an historical development, but is likely also to be more common among males and middle classes, while the idea that the self is defined and constrained by situation is more common among females and working classes.
02:16 autonomous self as a prerequisite of friendship / 自主的自我，是友谊的先决条件。
03:01 autonomous self vs situated self / 自主的自我 vs 处境的自我
05:12 Can pets be friends？or families? / 宠物可以成为我们的朋友吗？家人呢？
07:41 the tension between the autonomous self and the situated self / 自主的自我与处境的自我之间的张力
08:15 那我们该如何看待friendship？
音乐: That's What Friends Are For -- Dionne Warwick
Reference
Carrier, James. 1999. People Who Can Be Friends: Selves and Social Relationships. In The Anthropology of Friendship. Edited by S. Bell and S. Coleman. Oxford: Berg.
Shir-Vertesh, Dafna. 2012. “ ‘Flexible Personhood’: Loving Animals as Family Members in Israel.” American Anthropologist 114(3):420-32.
