This episode of “Modern Love” features Lisa Selin Davis’s essay “What Lou Reed Taught Me About Love.” She writes about how the song “I’ll Be Your Mirror” became the soundtrack to her summer romance with a floppy-haired “rocker kid” who inadvertently helped her find healing. Then, we hear from some members of the “Modern Love” team about the songs that influenced them as teenagers and about the memories — funny, empowering, nostalgic — that they carry with them.
Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where we’ll hear from our listeners about the songs that taught them about love.
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以下是这篇散文的英文原文节选(非全文):
I still have the tape. It’s a Maxell XLII 90, the kind with the clear smoky shell and the red-lettered label that read “First Love Mixtape – Side A.”
I was 16 when I made it, in the spring of 2005, for a boy named David. He was my first boyfriend, and I was his first girlfriend. We were both children of immigrants — his parents from Taiwan, mine from South Korea — and we met in AP Chemistry at a public high school in suburban California.
The tape was a confession, a dare, a love letter in 14 tracks. I spent hours on it, curating songs that said what I couldn’t: “Such Great Heights” by The Postal Service, “First Day of My Life” by Bright Eyes, “The Book of Love” by The Magnetic Fields.
I gave it to him in the parking lot after school, pressed into his palm like contraband. He listened to it on his Discman that night, he told me later, lying on his bedroom floor, headphones on, heart full.
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