First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)Modern Love

First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)

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This episode of “Modern Love” features Lisa Selin Davis’s essay “What Lou Reed Taught Me About Love.” She writes about how the song “I’ll Be Your Mirror” became the soundtrack to her summer romance with a floppy-haired “rocker kid” who inadvertently helped her find healing. Then, we hear from some members of the “Modern Love” team about the songs that influenced them as teenagers and about the memories — funny, empowering, nostalgic — that they carry with them.

Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where we’ll hear from our listeners about the songs that taught them about love.

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2025.6.04
我也不知道啊
Jax_:用Kimi查询到:“First Love Mixtape”是《Modern Love》专栏于2020年7月11日刊登的一篇散文,作者是Jaeah Lee。这篇文章以一盒自制的“初恋混音带”为线索,回忆了她与高中时期第一位男友之间的情感经历,并穿插了移民家庭背景、种族认同、以及成长过程中对爱与自我价值的理解。文章通过每一首歌的选取与交换,展现了两个亚裔美国青少年在加州郊区如何借助音乐来探索彼此的情感世界,也反映了她如何在多年后重新审视这段关系的意义。 以下是这篇散文的英文原文节选(非全文): I still have the tape. It’s a Maxell XLII 90, the kind with the clear smoky shell and the red-lettered label that read “First Love Mixtape – Side A.” I was 16 when I made it, in the spring of 2005, for a boy named David. He was my first boyfriend, and I was his first girlfriend. We were both children of immigrants — his parents from Taiwan, mine from South Korea — and we met in AP Chemistry at a public high school in suburban California. The tape was a confession, a dare, a love letter in 14 tracks. I spent hours on it, curating songs that said what I couldn’t: “Such Great Heights” by The Postal Service, “First Day of My Life” by Bright Eyes, “The Book of Love” by The Magnetic Fields. I gave it to him in the parking lot after school, pressed into his palm like contraband. He listened to it on his Discman that night, he told me later, lying on his bedroom floor, headphones on, heart full. 你可以通过《纽约时报》官网的 Modern Love专栏页面 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/11/style/modern-love-first-love-mixtape.html 阅读全文。
苒一
苒一
2025.6.04
这个有原文吗,在哪里看啊
Jax_:用Kimi查询到:“First Love Mixtape”是《Modern Love》专栏于2020年7月11日刊登的一篇散文,作者是Jaeah Lee。这篇文章以一盒自制的“初恋混音带”为线索,回忆了她与高中时期第一位男友之间的情感经历,并穿插了移民家庭背景、种族认同、以及成长过程中对爱与自我价值的理解。文章通过每一首歌的选取与交换,展现了两个亚裔美国青少年在加州郊区如何借助音乐来探索彼此的情感世界,也反映了她如何在多年后重新审视这段关系的意义。 以下是这篇散文的英文原文节选(非全文): I still have the tape. It’s a Maxell XLII 90, the kind with the clear smoky shell and the red-lettered label that read “First Love Mixtape – Side A.” I was 16 when I made it, in the spring of 2005, for a boy named David. He was my first boyfriend, and I was his first girlfriend. We were both children of immigrants — his parents from Taiwan, mine from South Korea — and we met in AP Chemistry at a public high school in suburban California. The tape was a confession, a dare, a love letter in 14 tracks. I spent hours on it, curating songs that said what I couldn’t: “Such Great Heights” by The Postal Service, “First Day of My Life” by Bright Eyes, “The Book of Love” by The Magnetic Fields. I gave it to him in the parking lot after school, pressed into his palm like contraband. He listened to it on his Discman that night, he told me later, lying on his bedroom floor, headphones on, heart full. 你可以通过《纽约时报》官网的 Modern Love专栏页面 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/11/style/modern-love-first-love-mixtape.html 阅读全文。
Jax_
Jax_
2025.7.14
用Kimi查询到:“First Love Mixtape”是《Modern Love》专栏于2020年7月11日刊登的一篇散文,作者是Jaeah Lee。这篇文章以一盒自制的“初恋混音带”为线索,回忆了她与高中时期第一位男友之间的情感经历,并穿插了移民家庭背景、种族认同、以及成长过程中对爱与自我价值的理解。文章通过每一首歌的选取与交换,展现了两个亚裔美国青少年在加州郊区如何借助音乐来探索彼此的情感世界,也反映了她如何在多年后重新审视这段关系的意义。
以下是这篇散文的英文原文节选(非全文):
I still have the tape. It’s a Maxell XLII 90, the kind with the clear smoky shell and the red-lettered label that read “First Love Mixtape – Side A.”
I was 16 when I made it, in the spring of 2005, for a boy named David. He was my first boyfriend, and I was his first girlfriend. We were both children of immigrants — his parents from Taiwan, mine from South Korea — and we met in AP Chemistry at a public high school in suburban California.
The tape was a confession, a dare, a love letter in 14 tracks. I spent hours on it, curating songs that said what I couldn’t: “Such Great Heights” by The Postal Service, “First Day of My Life” by Bright Eyes, “The Book of Love” by The Magnetic Fields.
I gave it to him in the parking lot after school, pressed into his palm like contraband. He listened to it on his Discman that night, he told me later, lying on his bedroom floor, headphones on, heart full.
你可以通过《纽约时报》官网的 Modern Love专栏页面 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/11/style/modern-love-first-love-mixtape.html 阅读全文。
zizilin
zizilin
2025.7.06
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