vol.21 | Growing up is a momentlululemma

vol.21 | Growing up is a moment

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我喜欢的说唱歌手jony j 在一次访谈中说,28岁突然感觉周围的一切都与众不同了,因此还写了一首歌《28》,27岁这年,我也对“一瞬间长大”有了深刻的感受。本期,我和helen就聊一聊哪些人生经历,让我们觉得一瞬间长大了。

本期我们讨论的问题

1. Have you ever felt that you've grown up at some moment? 

2. At 27 or 28 years old, have you developed different thoughts about work or life?

3. Does the environment change personality? In what ways do personality and destiny influence each other throughout a person’s life

TIMELINE

01:44 lulu: Oh, god,  I am 27, I am not young anymore! I have more responsibilities. 

05:17: helen: things are so different when i am 24, a lot of choices to make after graduation. 

10:19 lulu: i thought life will be free after i got the first job, but the reality is......

11:56 helen: experience makes you grow

12:20 helen: i see a lot of people suffer from disease in my work experience. i am not optimistic about life. you will never know what will happen next. just live at the moment.

20:45 lulu: you are what you are doing right now. part of the future is predictable, but we have the ability to break the order or rule.

24:14 flea experiment

26:04 lulu: i reconstruct my work mode. Time is not the focus; work efficiency is what matters

30:31 why it's hard to finish a book right now?

31:59 helen: we lose patience and long-time attention in this information age.

33:09 lulu: short videos summarize the main idea from books or movie. that's useless because you brain didn't deal with the information!
       Helen: The smartphone has changed our perception of time. we check the phone at any time.

37:12 lulu: I am an introverted person, but now I can bravely ask my questions and am not afraid of rejection. I think this is because the environment.

41:07 lulu: answering questions from students is also a big challenge. that requires me to keep learning and exploring.

42:17 environment including physical, social and cultural. work experience will change a person's personality. but 60%-70% was in DNA.

52:25 no guilty and no expectation

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WHO WE ARE

lulu - 英语老师 / 自由翻译
Helen - 澳洲注册职业治疗师 / 医学英语

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嵩鼠蛋
嵩鼠蛋
2025.7.29
我有时候在两种思想状态反复横切。一会儿“现实”,一会儿“理想”。这可能与人生的不同年龄与阶段有关,所以我现在很珍惜我每一个“荒谬”的突发奇想,并尽可能想去实现。
luluyiyii
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是的,不过我的感觉是现在不会那么“跳跃”,更会规划和想细节了,现实是理想的一部分,就是看怎么打磨~真的渴望想实现的,一定会实现