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0欢迎收听这期播客,此刻你听到的，是一场发生在2025年6月26日的对话。我的对面，坐着我的好朋友Tisha。
Tisha总是能看到朋友们的闪光点，她有一种独特的天赋：她是一位极佳的倾听者，能让每个与她交谈的人都感到被看见、被接纳，仿佛一位常在身边的“心理咨询师”，时常治愈着我们。每次我将她介绍给新的朋友，新的朋友都会说：“和她聊天太舒服了，我好喜欢你的这位朋友。”
我们之间有很多特别的记忆。我们时常一起吃饭，讨论生意，一起旅行。
我和她的家人在孟加拉渡过了一个我最特别的生日：大家在泳池里像一群孩子一样，自在的玩儿游戏，比赛谁游的最快，Tisha的爸爸总是第一名，Tisha和她妹妹争抢第二名，她的另外两个好朋友争抢第三第四名，我总是在后面扑腾的最后一名。游到筋疲力尽时，一个巧克力蛋糕被端到了泳池边。就在水里，大家都湿泳衣贴在身上，水从帽子一直往脸上流，围着让我许愿。
我的生活因Tisha的存在而变得更好。
录制前不久她刚从北京大学商学院硕士研究生毕业，正在思考是留在中国，是接受去英国的Offer, 还是回到孟加拉？录制时，她刚经历完内心动荡，决定回孟加拉和爸爸一起在男人堆里创业。录制结束后几天，她打包了所有的行李，飞回了达卡，她的家乡(孟加拉国的首都)。
现在10月初，她已经走上了一条全新兴奋的旅程，创业了3个多月，成立了服装包装工厂，加入到了孟加拉服装产业链，也在筹建 China-Dhaka Club，想让更多连接中国与孟加拉的故事发生——此刻，空间正在设计装修中。
当我开始着手剪辑时，老实讲，我已经记不清那4个多小时里我们具体聊了些什么，只记得录制结束后，我们站起来，在录音棚里一次又一次地拥抱，仿佛要把未来见不到的拥抱，都预先抱完。
我们聊了人生、职业、家庭、价值观，也聊了她作为女性创业者希望为这个世界带来的改变。这是第一次，将我们之间互相治愈，彼此鼓励的对话在麦克风前记录下来，希望能通过声音传递给你。
Show note:
00:00:16: visualization of our recording setting: barefoot with the mic between us, talking and looking right at each other.
00: 05:20 Hosting Challenges and Lessons
00: 07:38 Tisha Introduction and Navigating Post-Graduation Uncertainty
00: 11:10 Retirement, Career Goals and Perspectives
00: 14:06 Career strategy Book Recommendation: Long view
00: 18:22 The Meaning of Work and Life
00: 20:59 The Three Keys to Meaningful Life, Book Recommendation: Man's Search for Meaning
00: 26:19 The Power Love and Understanding
00: 29:22 Personal Growth Through Conflict Resolution
00: 35:02 Don't ever apologize for doing you
00: 35:29 Lessons in unconditional love from Tisha's family in Bangladesh
00: 37:23 The "love bubble" at home vs. the "organized chaos" outside in Dhaka. “He put us in a bubble... It always shields us from the outside world."
00: 42:40 When I look at Shenzhen, I see the future of Dhaka.
00: 43:45 Childhood Curiosity and Trauma: It's okay. It's their religion. They're respecting their religion, right?
00: 51:16 there were times my dad couldn't afford my school salary, but he always found a way.
00: 55:00 My dad's business is sexy... He makes it so attractive, so appealing.
01: 02:02 I'm going back for good, with a mission to bring more women into the workforce.
01: 09:00 Navigating Social Expectations, Perspectives on Love and Marriage.
01: 17:50 Self-Acceptance and Body Image: It's okay that I'm different. But sometimes our mind's not strong. It cracks.
01: 37:20 My vision is to pioneer the next chapter of what my dad started, creating a durable and positive contribution to our society.
01: 42:49 Final Thoughts and Farewell. The more kind you are, the better you make other people feel. The more love you give, the better your environment becomes.
