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5到了适婚的年纪，文艺作品里歌颂的有关婚姻的崇高意义都变成了现实的筹码。在今天，与其说选择不结婚的人可能变多了，更多的是在越来越无法掌控环境的情况下，为了趋利避害而选择集中在自己的内心和当下的状态的人越来越多了。
总之，感谢收听有关两个随机人类样本对婚姻极其主观地思考，也欢迎大家留下自己的想法。结婚与不结婚是同样勇敢的选择，愿大家都可以听从自己的内心，开心快乐。
PS: 节目封面是Bojack Horseman里Diane与Todd的对话，是她对婚姻的一针见血的洞察。因为这段对话很长所以只能截了前面几句，显得有些断章取义了，在这里放一下完整的对话：
所有的婚礼差不多都是谎言，对吗？你要郑重地宣誓，说自己会与这个人共度一生，然而你其实并不能肯定。那些话不过是说说而已，整场仪式都像一场闹剧。但这个谎言是建立在真实之上的，就像在这场闹剧的中央，藏着某些真实而纯粹的金块，而那陌生却美丽的东西，正是你愿意忍受其他一切烦扰与纷争的原因，对吗？有时候，要触到那纯粹发光的东西很难，因为它被太多争执、妥协与失望层层覆盖。但你只能相信，在厚重的遮蔽之下，它依然存在，哪怕你已看不见它。也许，这份相信本身，比那真实之物更加重要。你只能选择继续相信。
Well, all weddings are lies, right? Sort of. You're making this big declaration about how you're gonna stay with this person forever but you don't actually know that. You're just saying it. The whole thing is a farce. But it's a lie based on truth. Like, at the center of the farce, there's this nugget of something real and pure. And that strange beautiful something is why you put up with everything else, right? And sometimes it's hard to remember that pure, shining thing beacause it's been painted over with so many arguments and compromises and disappointments. But you have to believe it's still down there somewhere, even if you can't see it. And maybe the belief in it, is more important than the thing itself, but only as long as you still believe it.
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Taylor Swift - New Year's Day
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