00:00 🤕 我们不是停更，是被 2025 按在地上摩擦。
00:45 🤨 一年 30 集 → 一年 6 集，这中间出了什么事？
01:17 🐈 一只猫，直接掀翻了Yao整个 2025 开局。
02:06 😮💨 自由职业的真相：忙到你连崩溃的时间都没有。
03:48 🤯 两份全职工作 —> AI + 影视，Wing 到底在卷什么？
06:42 🚴 Wing跟着一个老外，骑车 4000 公里穿越中国。
07:48 🔥 2025 是憋大招，还是纯硬扛？
09:09 🚩 去年的 Flag，我们几乎全军覆没。
10:28 🪓 所谓“深耕”，其实一点都不浪漫。
14:36 🤡 10,000 订阅这个目标，现在看起来有点too young too naive?
15:47 🤔 工作越多，反而越废，这是合理的吗？
17:07 🪫 身体不行的时候，你的努力基本白给。
19:53 📊 从拖延症晚期，到用 Excel 管人生。
23:00 🏔️🐼 三星堆、雪山、熊猫，差点把我救回来。
25:54 🎤 不是路演就在路演得路上，这生活fun吗
31:01 🙌 一个月，从 Band 1 到 Band 5，这不是爽文。
35:32 🪞 “你太懒了”，其实是你对自己太狠了。
39:10 🎭 冒名顶替综合症 imposter syndrome，尬聊姐妹怎么了
41:49 🏁 立flag这东西，常立常有，常有常立，看看2026有什么flag
从消失的一年到新的开始｜2026 Resolution
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明年resolution的时候来callback🤣
希望flags不要倒🫠
转录16/17 【54:51-57:40】
Exactly. And of course, what's the plan for our podcast?
Well, I hope we can update it frequently—frequently enough. I don't want to overpromise anything, like saying we'll update weekly. I know from time to time we probably couldn't make it, but I do think we can keep it up. Consistency is more important than intensity. So we just keep it up—hopefully at least updated once every two weeks, which I think is more doable. But when we have more time, definitely weekly. Yeah. At least biweekly.
Well, for me, I hope we can explore new ways and keep it alive and engaging.
Yeah, it's our baby. So, well, for today's episode, we actually didn't prepare anything about IELTS. It's basically just sharing what's been happening to both of us last year. Hopefully, that can make some explanation to some of you why we stopped updating our podcast and give you some new perspective of our plans in 2026. And last but not least, thanks for sticking with us.
Yes. 对于我们播客来说，其实我们还是在2026，其实希望是可以比较保持一定频率去更新，可能我们做不到周更，但是两周一更，应该还是可以实现的，这更实际一点。那当我们有时间的话，那我们也希望是可以做到周更，但是两周一更，我觉得还是比较实际一点吧，就坚持一直更新，比强度更新，我觉得更重要吧。嗯，所以也很感谢大家一直还是陪伴着我们、不离不弃，到现在还在我们，到现在还没有退订阅。谢谢大家。我怀疑是不是他们订阅的太多了，然后他们都已经忘记曾经订阅过这样子的一个主播。对啊，Just kidding,，thank you so much to stay with us.谢谢你们一直陪伴着我们，对，然后我们这一次也没有准备关于雅思这个部分的内容，因为我们想说，这一期就更新一下我们的情况，包括去年跟今年的计划，那这样子大家也知道我们为什么没有更新，然后2026年将会怎么样，所以这一期，我们就没有准备雅思了，但是大家有什么想法，还是可以给我们留言的，谢谢大家，嗯，对
最重要就是 A big announcement, “the queens are back.” Just kidding. Just kidding. Ok. Catch you up in the next month. Keep gossiping in English.
Exactly. And of course, what's the plan for our podcast?
Well, I hope we can update it frequently—frequently enough. I don't want to overpromise anything, like saying we'll update weekly. I know from time to time we probably couldn't make it, but I do think we can keep it up. Consistency is more important than intensity. So we just keep it up—hopefully at least updated once every two weeks, which I think is more doable. But when we have more time, definitely weekly. Yeah. At least biweekly.
Well, for me, I hope we can explore new ways and keep it alive and engaging.
Yeah, it's our baby. So, well, for today's episode, we actually didn't prepare anything about IELTS. It's basically just sharing what's been happening to both of us last year. Hopefully, that can make some explanation to some of you why we stopped updating our podcast and give you some new perspective of our plans in 2026. And last but not least, thanks for sticking with us.
Yes. 对于我们播客来说，其实我们还是在2026，其实希望是可以比较保持一定频率去更新，可能我们做不到周更，但是两周一更，应该还是可以实现的，这更实际一点。那当我们有时间的话，那我们也希望是可以做到周更，但是两周一更，我觉得还是比较实际一点吧，就坚持一直更新，比强度更新，我觉得更重要吧。嗯，所以也很感谢大家一直还是陪伴着我们、不离不弃，到现在还在我们，到现在还没有退订阅。谢谢大家。我怀疑是不是他们订阅的太多了，然后他们都已经忘记曾经订阅过这样子的一个主播。对啊，Just kidding,，thank you so much to stay with us.谢谢你们一直陪伴着我们，对，然后我们这一次也没有准备关于雅思这个部分的内容，因为我们想说，这一期就更新一下我们的情况，包括去年跟今年的计划，那这样子大家也知道我们为什么没有更新，然后2026年将会怎么样，所以这一期，我们就没有准备雅思了，但是大家有什么想法，还是可以给我们留言的，谢谢大家，嗯，对
最重要就是 A big announcement, “the queens are back.” Just kidding. Just kidding. Ok. Catch you up in the next month. Keep gossiping in English.
转录15/17 【50:58-54:49】
Yeah, hopefully. But I'm already looking for some filmmakers I can meet in London. So I don't know if it's a real vacation or still kind of a work vacation.
No, please don't. Just enjoy your time.
Yeah, sounds good.
Yeah. And looking ahead, what feels more important to you in 2026? Learning a new skill, deepening a relationship, or cultivating a different mindset?
Well, I'm really trying to keep myself mentally and physically healthy. It sounds a bit corny, but at this point, I actually really, really mean it.
Yeah, I can tell.
Yup, YaoYao问我2026年最重要的是什么？我说身心健康真的真的真的很重要. 不是老生常谈，而是一个真的切身感觉是一个非常重要的东西，身心健康 一定要保重
一定要保重啊.
What about you?
Well, as I said, only kids will make choices. As an adult, I'll pick all. Learning a new skill, deepening a relationship, and cultivating a different mindset. Wow! Like, probably first I will learn a new skill. And besides teaching, I'd love to develop something that balances my life and could even become a side hustle—maybe management or investing.
That sounds awesome, it's really good.
Yeah. And it's also good to have someone around.
Wow, big news might drop.
Yeah. So that's why I stopped updating this podcast. I'm so sorry.
Just kidding.
Same here. Oh, OK, another big news. Well, yep. Good news though. True.
OK, I'm a bit shy. And it's also good to cultivate a different mindset. I hope this year I can meet more people with different mindset—hopefully, I can open my eyes and have a brand new mindset.
That sounds like a pretty good plan. A lot of work, but it sounds great.
Yeah. 所以Wing她反问我，那然后 2026年最重要是什么，那事实上的话，我就说，还是那句话，小孩子才做选择，然后成年人的话，我全都要。我就要学习一门新的技能，那事实上的话，除了是这个教学技能的话，我还希望说我有其他的一个技能，譬如说管理或者是投资。那还有另外一个就是刚才你们已经听到了
是不是
那另外两个
也是希望在我们的怎么、怎么讲呢
Yao你害羞了
有点不太知道怎么讲，就是希望我们除了可以管理好、经营好自己的事业，也可以管理好自己的感情生活
对啊
那然后还有一点就是说，希望的话，也可以接触不同的人，然后有更新、然后还有更加 广的一个思维
这也是我想要的，就一直想追求、满足自己的好奇心，保持一个好奇的状态去学习，去获得新知
不管是从人还是从书本 或者从视频都好，一直学习是保持年轻很重要的一个环节
Yeah, hopefully. But I'm already looking for some filmmakers I can meet in London. So I don't know if it's a real vacation or still kind of a work vacation.
No, please don't. Just enjoy your time.
Yeah, sounds good.
Yeah. And looking ahead, what feels more important to you in 2026? Learning a new skill, deepening a relationship, or cultivating a different mindset?
Well, I'm really trying to keep myself mentally and physically healthy. It sounds a bit corny, but at this point, I actually really, really mean it.
Yeah, I can tell.
Yup, YaoYao问我2026年最重要的是什么？我说身心健康真的真的真的很重要. 不是老生常谈，而是一个真的切身感觉是一个非常重要的东西，身心健康 一定要保重
一定要保重啊.
What about you?
Well, as I said, only kids will make choices. As an adult, I'll pick all. Learning a new skill, deepening a relationship, and cultivating a different mindset. Wow! Like, probably first I will learn a new skill. And besides teaching, I'd love to develop something that balances my life and could even become a side hustle—maybe management or investing.
That sounds awesome, it's really good.
Yeah. And it's also good to have someone around.
Wow, big news might drop.
Yeah. So that's why I stopped updating this podcast. I'm so sorry.
Just kidding.
Same here. Oh, OK, another big news. Well, yep. Good news though. True.
OK, I'm a bit shy. And it's also good to cultivate a different mindset. I hope this year I can meet more people with different mindset—hopefully, I can open my eyes and have a brand new mindset.
That sounds like a pretty good plan. A lot of work, but it sounds great.
Yeah. 所以Wing她反问我，那然后 2026年最重要是什么，那事实上的话，我就说，还是那句话，小孩子才做选择，然后成年人的话，我全都要。我就要学习一门新的技能，那事实上的话，除了是这个教学技能的话，我还希望说我有其他的一个技能，譬如说管理或者是投资。那还有另外一个就是刚才你们已经听到了
是不是
那另外两个
也是希望在我们的怎么、怎么讲呢
Yao你害羞了
有点不太知道怎么讲，就是希望我们除了可以管理好、经营好自己的事业，也可以管理好自己的感情生活
对啊
那然后还有一点就是说，希望的话，也可以接触不同的人，然后有更新、然后还有更加 广的一个思维
这也是我想要的，就一直想追求、满足自己的好奇心，保持一个好奇的状态去学习，去获得新知
不管是从人还是从书本 或者从视频都好，一直学习是保持年轻很重要的一个环节
转录14/17 【47:49-50:57】
但这次的话，那就不一样了，因为我有更加清晰的目标，就我非常清楚我想要干什么。那所以呢，我这次的一个动力会更加满一点。而且还有一点就是，就以前是父母赞助我去学习嘛，那这次是自己去赞助自己的，所以呢，就非常非常的有动力了，一定要学好一点
好搞笑
Yeah. And as you said, this year I also want to read more books—like wider reading, not just in one topic or in one direction. And I also want to improve my podcast skills into editing and planning podcast because this podcast is like my baby—I don't want to give it up.
Yeah, you have four cats and one baby.
Yeah, it's a big family, I know.
Yup.
And actually, I am thinking making these podcasts actually helps me grow. Because when I want to make my own episode, I have to read a lot, research a lot, and it forces me to learn. But last year, most of the time, I stayed in my comfort zone—just in one domain, education. So this year, in 2026, I hope I can have more directions and be more diverse.
Cool, that's really cool.
I hope next year, when we do another New Year's resolution episode, I proudly say, "Finally, I made it."
Hopefully we all made it.
Including the audience, yeah, listening to us.
Yeah, yeah. And by the way, Wing, I know you're going back to the UK too.
Yup, we'll overlap some time in the UK too, which is quite interesting. Yeah. We can't really meet each other in Guangzhou, but we can meet in the UK—why not?
Yeah, that's very funny. 就是我和Wing会有一段重合的时间在英国.
对啊,就是广州不见英国见.
非得要花大价钱,飞十几个小时去那边见面是吧？
对啊,多浪漫.
哈哈哈,果然是异国恋,哈哈哈,对啊.
But for me, this time in the UK is really about slowing down—more of a relaxing vacation. Meeting new people, catching up with old friends, and just enjoying the suburban vibe there. No big agenda, no pressure—just being present and taking it in. A little bit different from you.
Yeah, you're really on the vacation mode.
Yeah. I think I should take a break—from everything.
Yeah, that's good. Because you've been working nonstop, and last year you didn't travel anywhere, right?
No, no.
Yeah, you deserve a break.
但这次的话，那就不一样了，因为我有更加清晰的目标，就我非常清楚我想要干什么。那所以呢，我这次的一个动力会更加满一点。而且还有一点就是，就以前是父母赞助我去学习嘛，那这次是自己去赞助自己的，所以呢，就非常非常的有动力了，一定要学好一点
好搞笑
Yeah. And as you said, this year I also want to read more books—like wider reading, not just in one topic or in one direction. And I also want to improve my podcast skills into editing and planning podcast because this podcast is like my baby—I don't want to give it up.
Yeah, you have four cats and one baby.
Yeah, it's a big family, I know.
Yup.
And actually, I am thinking making these podcasts actually helps me grow. Because when I want to make my own episode, I have to read a lot, research a lot, and it forces me to learn. But last year, most of the time, I stayed in my comfort zone—just in one domain, education. So this year, in 2026, I hope I can have more directions and be more diverse.
Cool, that's really cool.
I hope next year, when we do another New Year's resolution episode, I proudly say, "Finally, I made it."
Hopefully we all made it.
Including the audience, yeah, listening to us.
Yeah, yeah. And by the way, Wing, I know you're going back to the UK too.
Yup, we'll overlap some time in the UK too, which is quite interesting. Yeah. We can't really meet each other in Guangzhou, but we can meet in the UK—why not?
Yeah, that's very funny. 就是我和Wing会有一段重合的时间在英国.
对啊,就是广州不见英国见.
非得要花大价钱,飞十几个小时去那边见面是吧？
对啊,多浪漫.
哈哈哈,果然是异国恋,哈哈哈,对啊.
But for me, this time in the UK is really about slowing down—more of a relaxing vacation. Meeting new people, catching up with old friends, and just enjoying the suburban vibe there. No big agenda, no pressure—just being present and taking it in. A little bit different from you.
Yeah, you're really on the vacation mode.
Yeah. I think I should take a break—from everything.
Yeah, that's good. Because you've been working nonstop, and last year you didn't travel anywhere, right?
No, no.
Yeah, you deserve a break.
转录13/17 【43:46-47:46】
Less pressure. More curiosity, basically.
Yeah. So if one day you meet Wing in the AI forum, you won't be surprised. And if one day you meet Wing in a club or in a pub, you won't be surprised too—because she wants to be a DJ.
I mean, I just want to try it out. I don't think I can be a DJ, but it seems like a fun thing to try. It is, it is.
所以基本上我26年想立的Flag，就基本上都是满足我自己的好奇心，当然最重要的还是身心健康，这个就不用质疑了，这是我首要做的事情。然后就是希望我的AI产品可以更稳定的发展，然后同时影视制作这边也可以有更多的尝试，包括很重要的，就是我们播客要持续更新，可能做不到周更，但是还是要坚持，还是要坚持更新，当然我也希望自己可以拓展一下知识面。所以要读更多的书，然后可以的话也尝试一下DJ这个事情，就不是说真的要去当DJ，而是我觉得DJ这个事情很好玩，因为我原本觉得他只是放歌，那其实里面，还是蛮多创意可以玩的，所以我觉得还是蛮好玩的。然后就想继续深耕一下我的AI技能，不要被时代抛弃，
那事实上的话，我觉得Wing她也是保持了她一贯的一个Flag，就是要多元发展，
就是我的好奇心太重了，没办法，
Like Steve Jobs said, "Stay hungry, stay foolish."
Yeah. I find so so many things that I don't know, that I wanna learn.
That's true.
Yeah. What about you?
Well, just now I mentioned as I dive deeper into education, I realize I have so many unknown areas. So actually, I'm heading to the UK for a short course in 2026. Wow! I'm really excited. Some of you may know I studied there before. Going back as a student again feels surreal. So last time, I was kind of lost, unsure about my future, so I kind of escaped from reality so I took the graduate course there. However, this time I have much clearer goals. I am sure what I want to do. So it's a mix of nerves and excitement.
That's awesome. But this year, you're not going to learn a new language, do more exercises, or something like that?
Well, for the language part, let me see. Probably I will still stick to my Japanese, you know—because I have subscribed Duolingo for a one-year membership and it hasn't expired yet. Not yet, not yet. OK, so that's my motivation. OK.
刚才有提到，像Wing的话，她会非常多元的发展，但事实上我刚才也有提到，当我在这个行业深耕的时候，就发现我真的还有太多太多的领域不熟知了，就是我还需要再继续深耕一下，所以我准备要去英国，然后学习一个短期课程。那事实上，我是非常非常兴奋，也非常非常期待。就是有一些听众，可能之前听过我一些故事，他们也知道我曾经在英国学习过。所以呢，再次回去当一名学生的话，感觉真的是很不真实。上一次我在英国学习的时候呢，事实上我是没有特别明确的一个人生方向，然后也不太清楚我以后要干嘛，那更多就是那种那不知道去干嘛的话，要不先去读个书吧那种心态。
Less pressure. More curiosity, basically.
Yeah. So if one day you meet Wing in the AI forum, you won't be surprised. And if one day you meet Wing in a club or in a pub, you won't be surprised too—because she wants to be a DJ.
I mean, I just want to try it out. I don't think I can be a DJ, but it seems like a fun thing to try. It is, it is.
所以基本上我26年想立的Flag，就基本上都是满足我自己的好奇心，当然最重要的还是身心健康，这个就不用质疑了，这是我首要做的事情。然后就是希望我的AI产品可以更稳定的发展，然后同时影视制作这边也可以有更多的尝试，包括很重要的，就是我们播客要持续更新，可能做不到周更，但是还是要坚持，还是要坚持更新，当然我也希望自己可以拓展一下知识面。所以要读更多的书，然后可以的话也尝试一下DJ这个事情，就不是说真的要去当DJ，而是我觉得DJ这个事情很好玩，因为我原本觉得他只是放歌，那其实里面，还是蛮多创意可以玩的，所以我觉得还是蛮好玩的。然后就想继续深耕一下我的AI技能，不要被时代抛弃，
那事实上的话，我觉得Wing她也是保持了她一贯的一个Flag，就是要多元发展，
就是我的好奇心太重了，没办法，
Like Steve Jobs said, "Stay hungry, stay foolish."
Yeah. I find so so many things that I don't know, that I wanna learn.
That's true.
Yeah. What about you?
Well, just now I mentioned as I dive deeper into education, I realize I have so many unknown areas. So actually, I'm heading to the UK for a short course in 2026. Wow! I'm really excited. Some of you may know I studied there before. Going back as a student again feels surreal. So last time, I was kind of lost, unsure about my future, so I kind of escaped from reality so I took the graduate course there. However, this time I have much clearer goals. I am sure what I want to do. So it's a mix of nerves and excitement.
That's awesome. But this year, you're not going to learn a new language, do more exercises, or something like that?
Well, for the language part, let me see. Probably I will still stick to my Japanese, you know—because I have subscribed Duolingo for a one-year membership and it hasn't expired yet. Not yet, not yet. OK, so that's my motivation. OK.
刚才有提到，像Wing的话，她会非常多元的发展，但事实上我刚才也有提到，当我在这个行业深耕的时候，就发现我真的还有太多太多的领域不熟知了，就是我还需要再继续深耕一下，所以我准备要去英国，然后学习一个短期课程。那事实上，我是非常非常兴奋，也非常非常期待。就是有一些听众，可能之前听过我一些故事，他们也知道我曾经在英国学习过。所以呢，再次回去当一名学生的话，感觉真的是很不真实。上一次我在英国学习的时候呢，事实上我是没有特别明确的一个人生方向，然后也不太清楚我以后要干嘛，那更多就是那种那不知道去干嘛的话，要不先去读个书吧那种心态。
转录12/17 【41:06-43:44】
Consistency beats intensity every single time.
Well said.
So if you want to tell yourself something—like I said, I want to pat myself and say "take it easy"—what about you? What would you want to tell yourself in 2025?
I'd tell myself balance work and life. Take better care of yourself. Mental and physical health really do go hand in hand. 就是我会跟自己说,要平衡好工作还有生活,不能说只有工作没有生活,还要好好照顾自己.同样的话，就像Wing刚才强调的,身心健康非常重要,他们也是缺一不可.
对啊,确实是.
So after reflecting our 2025, how about our 2026? What's on your list?
Well, I have a lot of things I want to do, like always.
OK, let's mark down.
So looking ahead to 2026, the priority is pretty clear. Mental and physical health come first—no negotiations. I want to keep myself active, protect my energy, and actually take care of the engine instead of running it into the ground. And from there, I hope our AI product can grow more stably, with more real sales. And if that foundation holds, I want to take part in more creative work too—more features, more series, maybe even more documentaries. I also want to keep our podcast updating more consistently—not perfectly, just stably show up, keep the rhythm, and let it grow over time. And I have a lot of things that I want to do. I want to read more—slower reading, wider reading—not just for productivity, but for perspective. And two more things. I’m sorry I have a lot of things I want to do in 2026.
Take your time.
Mostly just for fun, I want to dabble in DJing.
Seriously?
Yeah. Lately, I've been really obsessed with DJ Nova. It just sparked my curiosity. At first, I felt like, "Oh, DJs just play songs." But now I've learned that DJing is actually pretty creative. So sort of poked my curiosity, but no big ambitions here. I just want to try it out, understand how it works, get my hands on the gear, and learn something completely new. And last but not least, I want to keep sharpening my AI skills—staying curious, staying technical, and not falling behind.
Consistency beats intensity every single time.
Well said.
So if you want to tell yourself something—like I said, I want to pat myself and say "take it easy"—what about you? What would you want to tell yourself in 2025?
I'd tell myself balance work and life. Take better care of yourself. Mental and physical health really do go hand in hand. 就是我会跟自己说,要平衡好工作还有生活,不能说只有工作没有生活,还要好好照顾自己.同样的话，就像Wing刚才强调的,身心健康非常重要,他们也是缺一不可.
对啊,确实是.
So after reflecting our 2025, how about our 2026? What's on your list?
Well, I have a lot of things I want to do, like always.
OK, let's mark down.
So looking ahead to 2026, the priority is pretty clear. Mental and physical health come first—no negotiations. I want to keep myself active, protect my energy, and actually take care of the engine instead of running it into the ground. And from there, I hope our AI product can grow more stably, with more real sales. And if that foundation holds, I want to take part in more creative work too—more features, more series, maybe even more documentaries. I also want to keep our podcast updating more consistently—not perfectly, just stably show up, keep the rhythm, and let it grow over time. And I have a lot of things that I want to do. I want to read more—slower reading, wider reading—not just for productivity, but for perspective. And two more things. I’m sorry I have a lot of things I want to do in 2026.
Take your time.
Mostly just for fun, I want to dabble in DJing.
Seriously?
Yeah. Lately, I've been really obsessed with DJ Nova. It just sparked my curiosity. At first, I felt like, "Oh, DJs just play songs." But now I've learned that DJing is actually pretty creative. So sort of poked my curiosity, but no big ambitions here. I just want to try it out, understand how it works, get my hands on the gear, and learn something completely new. And last but not least, I want to keep sharpening my AI skills—staying curious, staying technical, and not falling behind.