【142】你不失败 当妈真的不容易

【142】你不失败 当妈真的不容易

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女性真的需要良性的情绪抒发

《欲望都市2》电影核心

You're not failing. Being a mother is hard.

- 我爱我的女儿们-我知道

-I love my girls. - I know that.


但是 这两天她们不在我很享受

But...I have enjoyed not having them around.


-我需要喘口气-是的 你需要

-I needed a break. -Yes, you did.


萝丝一直哭 每天哭 我都快疯了

Rose cries all day, every day. It's driving me crazy.


我观察你很久了 真不知道你怎么做到的

I have been watching you for months,I don't know how you're doing it.


有时候我会跑到别的房间 关上门

Sometimes I go in the other room and I close the door...


就任她哭去 这样是不是很糟?

..and I just let her scream. Isn't that awful?


不 你这是为了活命 喝一口

No, that's survival. Take a sip.

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霍布斯女士在这里
Miss Hobbes.

我想着 我们有酒吧为什么还要去外面?
I thought, "Why go to a bar when we have a bar?"

谢谢
Thank you.

谢谢 勒西尔 你可以走了
Thank you, Resir. You can go.

睡得怎么样?
How was your nap?

我睡得很沉
I slept hard

你需要好的睡眠 当妈太辛苦了
You needed it. Being a mother kicks your ass.

是的但一切都值得
Yes, but the benefits make it worth it.

好吧
Okay.

我们现在离家六千七百英里
We're 6700 miles away from everyone.

你可以跟我说实话 我也是当妈的人
You can say it to me. I'm a mother too

说什么实话?
Say what?

你一直在想说但压抑不说的那些实话
All the things you're thinking, but you won't allow yourself to say out loud.

好吧 我先来
Okay. I'll go first.

虽然我很爱布雷迪
As much as I love Brady.

我对他的爱无以言表
...and I do love him more than words.

但只做母亲对我来说并不够
...being a mother is not enough.

我想要工作
I miss my job.

你不会打算什么都不说
You're not gonna leave me hanging out here alone

让我感觉自己是最糟的母亲吧?
feeling like the worst mother, are you?

好吧
Okay.well

- 我爱我的女儿们-我知道
-I love my girls. - I know that.

但是 这两天她们不在我很享受
But...I have enjoyed not having them around.

-我需要喘口气-是的 你需要
-I needed a break. -Yes, you did.

萝丝一直哭 每天哭 我都快疯了
Rose cries all day, every day. It's driving me crazy.

我观察你很久了 真不知道你怎么做到的
I have been watching you for months,I don't know how you're doing it.

有时候我会跑到别的房间 关上门
Sometimes I go in the other room and I close the door...

就任她哭去 这样是不是很糟?
..and I just let her scream. Isn't that awful?

不 你这是为了活命 喝一口
No, that's survival. Take a sip.
我能跟你说点别的吗?
And can I tell you something else?

我很有罪恶感
I feel guilty.

非常罪恶 因为我一直祈祷能有个家庭
I feel so guilty, because all I ever prayed for was to have a family.

而现在我有了两个漂亮的女儿
And now I have these two beautiful girls.

结果呢?
And?

-她们快把我逼疯了-喝
They're driving me crazy. -Take a sip.

我觉得很失败 我觉得自己一直很失败
And I feel like I'm failing. I just feel like I'm failing all the time.

你不失败 当妈真的不容易
You're not failing. Being a mother is hard.

天啊 太难了 我还有个全职保姆呢
Oh, my God. It is so hard. And I have full-time help.

那些单独带孩子的女人是怎么做到的?
How do the women without help do it?

我真不知道
I have no fucking idea.

-敬她们-敬她们
-To them. To them.

之前当我..
And when I…

不行 我不能说 太可怕了
Oh, no, I can't. I can't. It's awful.


sip


Go

之前当我听到萨曼莎说
When I heard Samantha say...

哈里会背着我跟艾琳偷情
..that Harry was gonna cheat on me with Erin-

我第一个念头是 我不能没有保姆
--my first thought was: "I can't lose the nanny."