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1. Monday morning. A stranger DMed me out of the blue.
周一早上。一个陌生人突然给我发了私信。
2. Turns out, she wanted to ask about my career switch. Switching into tech. Said she's been stuck for a while.
原来啊，她想问我转行的事。转码。说自己卡了一阵了。
3. Truth is, I don't usually meet people from the internet. Makes me nervous.
说实话，我一般不约网友。会紧张。
4. But I get it. I've been there before. Working up the courage to reach out to other people for help isn't easy.
但我能 get 到。我也是过来人。鼓起勇气找别人帮忙不容易。
5. I mean, if I just turned her down, would she ever DM anyone again?
你想啊，要是我直接拒了，她以后还敢约谁吗？
6. You know what? I even flipped a coin. Heads yes, tails no. It came up tails.
你猜怎么着？我甚至抛了枚硬币。正面同意，反面拒绝。结果是反面。
7. But I typed back anyway. "Tomorrow after work?" Yeah, I'm a little rebellious, I know.
但我还是回了。"明天下班后行吗？" 嗯，我就是有点叛逆，我知道。
8. Got her reply right away. Three exclamation marks. "Thanks!!!"
她秒回。三个感叹号。"谢谢！！！"
9. I put my phone down. I suddenly felt tomorrow getting closer.
我把手机放下。我突然感觉明天就快到了。
📌 关键词：
· DM /diː em/ direct message 的缩写，私信。两个字母分开念。Instagram / Twitter / LinkedIn / Slack 这种平台上发私信都用。名词动词都行。例：he DMed me / I DMed her / shoot me a DM
· out of the blue /aʊt əv ðə bluː/ 突然之间，毫无征兆。形容意外发生、没预兆的事。例：He texted me out of the blue / Out of the blue, she quit / The offer came out of the blue
· career switch /kəˈrɪr swɪtʃ/ 转行，换工作方向。比 change jobs 更强调换赛道。例：a career switch into tech / make a career switch / considering a career switch
· I've been there /aɪv bɪn ðer/ 我懂这种感觉，我经历过。共情常用语，听别人吐苦水接得上。例：Yeah, I've been there / I've been there before / Trust me, I've been there
· work up the courage /wɜːrk ʌp ðə ˈkʌrɪdʒ/ 鼓起勇气。形容做某件需要勇气的事之前的心理建设。例：working up the courage to ask / finally worked up the courage / need to work up the courage to speak up
· reach out /riːtʃ aʊt/ 主动联系（人）。商务邮件常用，比 contact 更柔软。例：reach out anytime / I reached out to her / don't hesitate to reach out
· turn down /tɜːrn daʊn/ 婉拒、拒绝。比 reject 更柔和、更日常。例：turn down an offer / turn down a job / I had to turn her down
· rebellious /rɪˈbeljəs/ 叛逆、反骨的。形容不按常理出牌的性格。例：I'm a little rebellious / a rebellious teenager / feeling rebellious today
· Turns out /tɜːrnz aʊt/ 原来是、结果发现。讲故事常用，引出意外或真相。开场或转折都能用。例：Turns out he was right / Turns out, it's free / Turns out she'd been waiting for hours
· stuck /stʌk/ 卡住、进退两难、没进展。形容人在工作/学习/感情里没突破，也可指物理上卡住。例：I'm stuck / feel stuck in this job / been stuck for months / the door is stuck
· Truth is /truːθ ɪz/ 说实话、老实讲。开场坦白用，准备掏心窝子之前的铺垫。比 honestly 更带点份量。例：Truth is, I forgot / Truth is, I don't know / The truth is, we tried
· flip a coin /flɪp ə kɔɪn/ 抛硬币（决定）。表示让运气定、不想自己选了。heads = 正面, tails = 反面。例：I flipped a coin / let's flip a coin / flip a coin to decide
· stranger /ˈstreɪndʒər/ 陌生人；不熟悉的人。也可作形容词比较级 stranger = 更奇怪的。例：A stranger DMed me / Don't talk to strangers / She's no stranger to hard work
· nervous /ˈnɜːrvəs/ 紧张的、不安的。形容人在某件事前心里发慌。也可指神经的（医学）。例：I'm nervous / Makes me nervous / nervous about the interview / nervous system
· exclamation /ˌekskləˈmeɪʃn/ 感叹、惊叹；感叹的呼喊。最常出现在 exclamation mark / exclamation point（感叹号）这个搭配里。例：three exclamation marks / let out an exclamation of surprise
明天见。Have a nice day!
