EP184 [全英] Why Is Making Friends So Hard as an Adult?

EP184 [全英] Why Is Making Friends So Hard as an Adult?

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How Modern Life Made Connection Easier—and Friendship Harder

Today, I want to talk about something that sounds very simple, but the more I think about it, the more complicated it becomes: Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?

According to a major report released by the WHO last year, roughly one in six people around the world experiences loneliness. And interestingly, loneliness is actually more common among adolescents and young adults than among older people.

You can be 25, living in New York, working at a big company, going to bars every weekend, with 2,000 followers on Instagram—and still feel incredibly lonely.

So today, let’s talk about adult friendship: why it gets harder, what modern loneliness actually looks like, and maybe most importantly, what we can do about it.

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Q_Nwsj
Q_Nwsj
2026.9.10
哈哈想起网上的段子:惊觉学生时代的好朋友其实都是“分配”的。
DWangDavid
:
😆😆😆 還是學生時期的朋友好!
ManMan_Jffk
ManMan_Jffk
2026.9.12
Wow,your voice sounds great,I like it!
DWangDavid
:
Aww thank you ☺️
HD655285v
HD655285v
3天前
可能之前做题做习惯了,听的时候总想抓重点,写些什么,后期可能会出习题吗哈哈哈
DWangDavid
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😂😂😂 短期內不會
Totally agree!!! Building friendship is so important, you have to try to be the one who make the first move, and you have to step out your comfort zone, actively connect with people instead of complaining the boring life.
DWangDavid
:
💯💯
HD519509m
HD519509m
9天前
got it thankyou~
DWangDavid
:
😇😇
被动的社交更多时候是自己在对外做的防御,害怕自己的主动和善意,主动社交需要很多勇气,失败了真的很内耗hhh
DWangDavid
:
是的 是個dilemma
xxxtg_qudC
xxxtg_qudC
10天前
Yeah,sometimes i will feel lonely even there are so many friends surrounded me. But I more tend to think myself too idle that I feel that feeling. If I very concentrate on my things I won’t feel lonely probably. 哈哈哈哈🤣
DWangDavid
:
Right. You’re not wrong 😂
终于找到一个听起来舒服的磨耳朵的,感谢
DWangDavid
:
🥰🥰
你的声音好好听
DWangDavid
:
Thank you!
很喜欢,听起来舒服又能增长英语知识!
DWangDavid
:
Thank you!
Savanna_uoVS
Savanna_uoVS
2026.9.10
其实身边朋友都在,等你主动一次
DWangDavid
:
Exactly 💯
Jun21Joy
Jun21Joy
2026.9.10
这期是真的听的特别舒服!
DWangDavid
:
舒服的地方是?內容?
HD148815u
HD148815u
2026.9.11
所以交朋友也需要勇敢一点
DWangDavid
:
That’s right!
Hi-Minying
Hi-Minying
2026.9.10
Be the one who initiates! 非常好的tips! Cheers.
DWangDavid
:
沒錯,面子不重要 👍👍
ysWang
ysWang
2026.9.11
学英语!加油加油
DWangDavid
:
加油💪💪
princess_era
princess_era
2026.9.10
正在改变刷短视频的习惯,午饭刷剧时改为听,想刷视频时也把视频静音放着您的背景音,实验了两天,效果不错,而且也能听懂主要大意,祝您生活愉快!
DWangDavid
:
👍👍👍
莲璨
莲璨
2026.9.10
morning~工作中边听
DWangDavid
:
💪💪💪
在大学就已经很难交朋友了,好痛苦😖
这是美音还是英式
WANZN
WANZN
2026.9.10
The more mature you are,the more lonely you feel
DWangDavid
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But it doesn’t have to be this way